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Divorce

Ep. 28 – Dealing with Shame

July 13, 2021 by Coach Heidi K

Shame is a very common feeling that we experience regarding divorce and breakup. Join Coach Heidi K as she takes you through 5 steps to release shame along with some of her own personal experiences and insights. Don't struggle alone with shame, start getting support to move through it right here…

Ep. 27 – Divorce and Debt Demystified

July 12, 2021 by Coach Heidi K

Don't sit in the space of not knowing, it is the most anxiety provoking place to be. Join Coach Heidi K and financial attorney Leslie Tayne for clarification and simple steps forward regarding handling debt and divorce. You will leave this conversation feeling empowered with knowledge and with your eyes on the light at the end of the tunnel.

Coach Heidi K is Interviewed: Your Divorce Journey

June 2, 2021 by Coach Heidi K

Coach Heidi K is interviewed here by Divorce Attorney, Dina De Giorgio. Find out divorce coaching strategies that can transform your process all the way from the overwhelm of the legal process through creating your new life and navigating the world of dating.

Click to view interview.

Ep. 23 – Shining The Light On Gray Divorce

May 20, 2021 by Coach Heidi K

Gray divorce can be enormously stressful, don't go through it alone. Join Coach Heidi K and her guest, divorce attorney Dina De Giorgio as they empower you with key factors to transform your process. You may not know what you don't know so get clued in right here.

Ep. 12 – When You Can’t Let Go

October 27, 2020 by Coach Heidi K

Coach Heidi K's empathy for your situation deepens as she experiences the difficulty of getting past disappointment. Listen here as she shares powerful insights with raw honesty.

How to Deal With Disappointment in a Relationship

May 29, 2020 by Coach Heidi K

In this article, I was asked to share my perspective on dealing with disappointment in a relationship. Scroll down to see what I shared, you may be surprised. What are your ideas for coping with that kind of disappointment?

Click here for a variety of strategies along with my comments:

https://upjourney.com/how-to-deal-with-disappointment-in-a-relationship

It’s Not Just You

March 31, 2018 by Coach Heidi K

“I thought it was just me” is a familiar phrase of many of my divorce coaching clients, until I assure them that their thoughts and feelings regarding separation and divorce are completely normal. The look of relief and encouragement on their faces is part of why I love what I do so much. During our one to one sessions, as clients explore their pain, disappointment, frustration, anger, sadness, relief, fear, and ambivalence, they begin to feel validated by the fact that their emotions are extremely common and completely understandable.

This phenomenon contributes to my clarity around the importance of these individuals connecting with each other for support, understanding, and to deepen their feelings of validation; and that is precisely what so many have asked for over the years. Clients have requested groups where they can feel safe to discuss what they are going through with others who are experiencing similar divorce related challenges and emotions.

The Family Law and Divorce Firm of Wisselman and Associates understands that exact need within people who are experiencing this life transition. That is why they have collaborated with me and generously offered space in their beautiful Great Neck, New York conference room to host these much needed groups. They are concerned about the needs of people during this painful time, before during and beyond the crucial legal aspect of the process which they so expertly and comprehensively provide.

We have developed four monthly groups to suit various needs of individuals during this transition and there is no fee to attend. I will be facilitating these empowerment groups using a positive coaching focus along with strategies to help you successfully navigate this transition and create the new life that you desire. There will be a different divorce related topic discussed each month along with open discussion, questions, and answers.

These groups are for you if you are:

  • Contemplating divorce or your spouse is considering it
  • You are headed for divorce and you’re not sure how and where to begin
  • You are in any stage of separation or divorce

Choose from the following groups:

  • Separation and Divorce Discussion
  • Women’s Divorce: Moving Forward
  • Divorcing Dads Discussion
  • Divorce Over 50 Discussion

Click here for schedule and further information

Feel free to reach out with questions: coachheidik@gmail.com

Using a Life Coach in the Divorce Process and Beyond

March 18, 2017 by Coach Heidi K

In this article, I was interviewed by Divorce Attorney and Mediator, Deborah Kaminetsky on the role of a Life Coach in the divorce process. Check out what I shared that you might not have thought about before...

http://www.kaminetzkylaw.com/2017/03/16/using-a-life-coach-in-the-divorce-process-and-beyond/

The Value of Being Heard: Coach Heidi on FIT TV

November 8, 2016 by Coach Heidi K

Alternate Reality: Trump, Clinton, or Your Ex-Spouse?

September 27, 2016 by Coach Heidi K

As I watched the first presidential debate and the ensuing commentary, I began to analyze the human dynamic unfolding before me. What I saw was an exaggerated, dramatic, extreme example of what is part of our human nature and what I notice in particular with my divorcing clients.

Here it is in a nutshell: We see what we want to see, not necessarily what actually is. Just as we see whichever candidate we support as preforming better and telling the truth, we see our own reality as the accurate one in contrast to whomever we are disagreeing with. The higher the stakes, the more tunnel vision develops. Whether in politics or in a personal feud, our perception is often too black and white and not nuanced as the truth actually is.

In following the post-debate commentary, I noticed that depending upon who is reporting and who is viewing, even seemingly objective measures completely conflict based upon human perception, including fact checks and polls. Similarly, each divorcing client brings forth evidence of his/her perspective which is believed to be compelling and indisputable by that client and his/her supporters.

Let’s take this phenomenon a step further into the post-divorce world of dating and in fact, into the entire sphere of “looking for love.” Here as well, we see what we want to see during our initial dates and not necessarily what in fact exists. For example, when we are in the throes of physical attraction and our own needs and desires, we often dismiss our inner voice in favor of the reality that we wish to create, ultimately leading to disappointment when the truth reveals itself.  This phenomenon often brings clients to coaching due to frustration with the dating experience.

So, what can each of us take home from this debate experience and its dramatic expression of human nature? Let’s each make an effort to be more conscious of our tendencies to see what we want to see when we are evaluating politics, relationships, or another person’s perspective. Let’s keep in mind that almost nothing is purely black or white, no matter how clearly we initially see it that way. Let’s check in with ourselves around our own “alternate reality” so that we can make wiser and more insightful choices in all aspects of our lives; political, personal, and professional. If we don’t become more conscious of our human tendencies to see only what we want to see, aren’t we really becoming more like the supporters of whichever presidential candidate we are criticizing?

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